“When your part of the TTC community, having a baby is anything but sexy and passionate. It’s downright clinical and often painful.”

“By this time next year, you will have your own sitting on your lap” my Ghanaian aunty prophesied in the type of voice that is warm but also spiced with concern. I smiled back trying to make it as believable as possible and then looked down. “Oh lordt! If only it was that easy” I thought to myself.